i'm taylor and basically i like everything.
Ian Somerhalder - BoodyNightCon Europe in Brussels (May 11, 2014)

I fell in love with him. But I don’t just stay with him by default as if there’s no one else available to me. I stay with him because I choose to, every day that I wake up, every day that we fight or lie to each other or disappoint each other. I choose him over and over again, and he chooses me.

It’s a metaphor

Three Four times Dean’s loved ones overcame mind control for him.

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